I've been reading a wonderful book by Marianne Williamson, A Woman's Worth, that speaks directly to so many of the ideals that I fiercely desire: A new woman is burgeoning forth. She is allowed to feel good about herself. She is allowed to not only want, but to expect the best for herself. The deep love she has found within allows her to love and nurture everyone around her. So, I am so into this book. The profound and progressive thoughts put forth on every page prompt some very ardent head-nodding, frequent wistful, "I know, right?", and many a downright pious, "Amen, sister!" Williamson is a woman who has connected with her inner Goddess, and inspires me to get closer to mine.
I'm not sure what prompted me to look at the copyright date, but I was truly dismayed to find that this book is 20 years old!... Come on, ladies! How on earth, in the past 20 years, have we gone so far in the wrong direction? Girls today idolize women like Snookie and Kim Kardashian, who cannot see that for their every fear and insecurity, they are being exploited. -Now, here is where I want to be careful about lingering up on a soap box. We are all intelligent women who know in our hearts what is good for us and what is toxic. Instead, I invite you to build your own platform.
Find a young woman who is mired in self-doubt. Share with her what you know about true beauty. Chances are, she will be a bit more than skeptical. Encourage her to pay attention for a short while, be still, and observe how she feels at any given moment. Which words, actions, t.v. shows, songs, or movies make her feel good about herself? Which ones leave her feeling less than, or not good enough? In the stillness, we hear our inner goddess speaking, and the sooner we all learn to listen to her, the better.
4 comments:
Great, inspiring blog!! I'm looking forward to reading more on here.
As a mother of 3 young daughters, I am constantly reminded of the fragility of the woman's soul/spirit. So easily hurt,made bitter and made to feel ugly by a media that portrays beauty as flesh only. We will always have much work to do in this regard with our daughters and one another. I have a friend who tells me all the time "You are kind, your are good and you are beautiful..." and it always changes something in me- makes my heart happy.
I look forward to reading this blog and being encouraged. Any effort we make in this life to love is GOOD. Much love to you my friend.
I hope Snookie and Kim find this blog...for whatever reason, they have power and bringing them to the light side could bring this movement lots of momentum. Go Girls!
Thanks, ladies. You are all an inspiration and your support is my life-line. sorry for the delayed response, I am still learning how this blog-stuff works. love you!
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