By God, we women are givers. Sharing, caring, nurturing, serving, giving to others is what we do. It's who we are. Who needs something? A friend? A family member? A complete stranger? Well, run -don't walk! Get in there and help! Of course, we get something in return. We anticipate, we crave the comfort and satisfaction of being needed, loved, and appreciated even. Better yet, we experience a deep sense of connection to all human-kind.
Why, then, is it so difficult to be on the receiving end? I am coming to a disconcerting realization that I am a most ungracious receiver. I become nearly mortified at being offered a free lunch, or even a soft drink. Does not everyone see how blessed I am, for heaven's sake? To accept would be nothing short of putting my indulgent wants ahead of the needs of my potential donor. What if they can't pay their bills now because they left the entire tip? Reason tells me that is somewhat silly logic. Conscience tells me it's arrogant. I would like to change. Far be it for me to deny someone else the pure pleasure of giving.
So next time someone gives me something, I will smile and say "thank you, thank you very much". Practice with me, girls. I know some of you feel the same way. I've had dinner with you.
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