The Perfect Gift

It's that time of year again, -the time for celebrating the sacred birth of Jesus, gathering together with family and friends, and holding close the spirit of joy, peace, and love. It is also the time for frantic preparation, shopping for gifts, putting up decorations, sending cards, and juggling activities. No complaints here though. I am old enough to keep it all in perspective and I no longer hold myself to any unrealistic expectations to do 'it all'. I did come to a sad realization however, while I was brainstorming gift ideas. As much as I love and cherish each and every person on my list, I'm just not sure what they want. I know I'm not alone, and it is the age-old dilemma that makes us all question the sanity of exchanging gifts with someone, gifts that neither person really wants. The practical solution is gift cards or even cash, but that appears impersonal. I love the saying "it's the thought that counts". It kind of means 'it didn't cost a lot of money', and/or 'it was a good effort that just fell short'. If it were truly the thought that counted, most of us would receive treasure beyond measure on Christmas morning. Unfortunately, we rack our brains and then end up settling on a gift because time runs out. The best gift anyone can receive is one that lets us know the giver really knows us. So, why not give an Outpouring of Love? A letter, photo, or song that has personal meaning, connects you and can be held close or easily accessed, will be cherished for a lifetime. It's just a thought.