"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside us while we live." -Norman Cousins
Balance. The key to happiness. Every aspect of life requires balance, but for this day, let's just talk about emotional balance. I hear you, -so many of you. "Christmas is supposed to be a time of joy, hope, and love, but I can't shake the overwhelming sadness. I miss my (mom, dad, grandma, lover, friend, child.....)" I feel fortunate that I have suffered no tragedy to speak of. It is impossible for me to truly understand how it feels, I can only imagine. The irony of life is that it is so precious. Life is God's greatest gift to His children, and yet it is taken seemingly without regard. So, how do we balance love and loss? Where can we find comfort and peace? Maybe in knowing that love born never dies. (Even if we can no longer live with it, it remains a part of us.) Mourning is love unrequited until our souls meet again. And mourning is a one-sided affair. Those who have passed are at peace. All the angels in heaven sing, laugh, and love with a greatness beyond our comprehension. Still, they know your pain. They know that all suffering lies in this realm of earthly existence. And they understand that your pain will lead you to your salvation. On your quest to make peace with death, you will learn everything you need to know about your life. Angels have the means to take our pain away, but their love is great enough to let us live with it until we find ourselves. Until then, cherish your memories, receive the love of your angels, and take what comfort you can in knowing that your light shines through them, and their love shines through you.
4 comments:
Wow...kleenex alert would have been helpful. I read this at work and then had to explain my tears. You nailed how I feel except it's not the loss of a person. I love reading your thoughts and am proud to be your twin!
You. Complete. Me. -picture me forming a heart with my hands. (hope that gives you a chuckle to make up for the tears)
Kristi this is great your word are very uplifting thank you for the great insight and being such a nice person
I miss seeing you, corena
Me too, Corena! I think of you lots and would love to get together. You and Greg are truly amazing, your family always inspires me. Plus you are fun. And nice, of course! See you soon.
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